Just for the Sake of Appreciation.

Yesterday afternoon John noticed the hydrangeas on the kitchen table. “Look at the hydrangeas,” he said.

“I picked those and put them there yesterday.”

“But I noticed.”

I really thought about this as he left for an appointment. It used to be that when I did something in the house, such as bring in flowers, rearrange something, or put a new decorative item up I’d bought I’d be disappointed if he didn’t notice.

But I realized some time ago I really do this for me. Two of my values are home and beauty. Did it matter that he would notice? I no longer feel disappointed if he does not notice things I do around the house that make me happy.

I realized my response wasn’t the same as it would have been years ago — like, oh, now you noticed. But it’s interesting how at first it felt like old patterning, but yet it wasn’t.

Over the years I’ve become more comfortable with who I am and have learned more often than not to just be me. The more I am myself it seems the more John has picked up on certain aspects of seeing life through my eyes. I saw this today when he noticed the flowers and after I gave it some thought. I do the same with certain aspects of how he has helped me see life in different ways than I might have, too.

And so I realized what a lovely thing it was for him to notice those flowers just for the sake of him enjoying and appreciating the beauty of nature.

I just thought that was kinda cool and just had to share.

XO,

Barbara

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What’s the Noise All About? What I Miss.

My morning walk winds along a path with trees and a wooded area on one side and an athletic field on the other. Once I reach the top of the hill, I come to a busy highway.

Sometimes the noise startles and frazzles my nerves. I had slept deeply last night and wasn’t quite awake as I sauntered up the hill and along the path. The noise from the trucks and cars whizzing by felt like an assault to my still awakening psyche.

Once past the elementary and high school and down the hill the noise usually quiets again as it did today. I felt my body, tense from the rushing of cars and loud noise as they passed, relax and breathe a sigh of relief as I left the highway behind.

On my way back the maintenance man at the elementary school was using a leaf blower to blow the fresh-cut grass from the sidewalks.

I heard myself wonder, “Whatever happened to brooms?”

I then recalled just a week earlier when I’d driven through a small nearby town to see a shopkeeper sweeping the debris from the front of her shop. I enjoyed the feelings it invoked in me— like a meditative state as I watched her go back and forth with the broom across the sidewalk.

Over the weekend I’d swept off our deck from leaves and branches that had fallen after a storm. I love to hear the sound of the bristles going back and forth across the wood planks.

My mind drifted back to the leaf blower blaring along with the man wearing headphones to block out the noise.

Not only was the noise bothering my still awakening self, but I also felt a loss of connecting with that man – even if just to say hi.

I spend a lot of time alone, which I choose, and honestly, what I need to keep myself in balance and grounded. But I also enjoy (on most days) when I encounter someone and can say Hi or Good Morning.

I realized the noise was about so much more than bothering my ears. There was a sense of loss of connection.

Back to thinking about the woman sweeping in front of her shop, I realized seeing her also brought me back to what felt like simpler times. Where life didn’t seem in a hurry all the time. Or full of so much noise and so many distractions.

Once I was back home I put on one of my favorite t-shirts. It says, “Live Simply.” As I write this post I don’t have music playing as I usually do and am instead just enjoying the sounds of nature and the birds outside my writing cottage window.

I sometimes think we don’t even realize what frazzles our nerves and we stay in a perpetuated state of angst. While I was frustrated with the noise I encountered I was reminded again that I have a choice. And so I’m choosing to move at a slower pace today and one with as little noise as possible.

XO,

Barbara

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Chop Wood and Chameleon Spirit: Oracle and Animal Guidance for the Week

This week’s general reading is written below or you can listen to the recorded version.

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What is it we need to pay attention to this week for our highest good?

From The Wisdom of the Oracle: Chop Wood in reverse. This means that Spirit wants us to pay extra attention.

It’s interesting that last week I pulled Clean it Up in reverse which was all about dealing with what it was we were avoiding and using procrastination as an excuse. Clean It Up was calling for us to see the challenge we were avoiding as an Opportunity to clear the cobwebs and get to the task at hand that needed resolving in order to move forward.

Pulling Chop Wood in reverse is nudging us once again to where it is that perhaps we didn’t what we should have last week and clean up what needed to be looked at.  Chop Wood is asking us where is it we are spending too much time thinking about what we want to accomplish instead of just taking one small step toward our intentions.

The Universe can’t support us if we don’t first believe in and begin to support ourselves. When we put one small step into action toward an intention we wish for, the Universe can then step in and bring us more of what we want. Even if we feel the timing isn’t quite right on something we are pursuing, we still have to take steps toward what we are intending so the rest of what is to come to fruition can.

Additional insight from guidebook I feel relevant: You have to get out of the chair to make something happen.

I do think, speaking from my own experiences, and reminding myself at times, not to make something bigger than it needs to be – which can feel overwhelming and then you don’t know where to start.

The Chop Wood I see is about just asking us to start – even in one small corner – just begin.

From Spirit Animal Oracle: Chameleon Spirit – Act as if

How often is it that we know what we want, but we don’t know how to start, and Chop Wood is asking us to just start somewhere.

Chameleon’s message “act as if” is a great message to go along with this because we don’t always know how something is going to unfold or what the outcome will be.

But taking time in meditation or in stillness, perhaps visualize the outcome you wish for – then act as if every step you will take is leading to what you intend – and then watch as it unfolds. Perhaps not exactly as you visualized and it will change as you go along, but just the act of moving a step forward will determine what is next.

Just like the Chameleon changes color to adapt to its surroundings, you may have to also.

With Chameleon being reversed it is asking us to be in awareness of what energies we are feeling. Is it our own energy or are we being pulled in by other’s energy and we don’t realize it?

Staying in tune with our own energy, our own hopes, and dreams, and making sure it is what WE want and not what other’s want of us that helps us achieve our intentions without feeling bogged down by other’s energy.

Did you know that the chameleon has a third eye? It’s located at the back of their head.

This is symbolic to remind us that our intuition is what will guide us  – trusting into what you sense and feel is what will work to your advantage for your overall well- being as you move forward.

As you Chop Wood putting into action what you know it is you wish to manifest, keep Chameleon Spirit as your guide to remind you of your true color. This may require a balance of integrating self-care along with moving one small step toward what is important to you.

Additional insight from guidebook I feel relevant:  Choose some activities that will restore your sense of being grounded and avoid people who revel in drama.

Hope this was helpful!

XO,

Barbara

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Cards used for this week’s general reading: The Wisdom of the Oracle and Spirit Animal Oracle by Colette Baron-Reid