Celebrating this Special Guy Today. Something You May Not Know.

john eThis handsome little guy turns 55 today. The only boy out of five sisters.

I met this little guy when he was just four years old. Little did I know, or perhaps I did, but he would turn out to be the love of my life.

You see, this is my Johnnie. The man I’ve been married to for almost 30 years.

Oh how I recall seeing him for the first time in highschool. I was a freshman and he was a senior. I can still see that dark blue winter jacket he wore with the fake fur collar (yes, that was in then). His hair hung just a smidge over the back of his collar.  The jacket he loved and called it his “cop jacket” because he thought about being a policeman.

We didn’t date in highschool, but oh, how I admired him from afar. After he graduated he went off to college, which turned out to not be what he wanted in life. He returned to our small town six months later.

I was half way through my sophomore year when I was walking home one night with my friend. He pulled up in his big brown Pontiac and asked me if I wanted a ride home. I knew that first night with him that I loved him.

I don’t recall when we discovered this other piece of the story, but it still makes me smile to this day. We came to find out that when my mom was pregnant with me, she and my dad had rented a cabin. And you’ll never guess who was staying next door?

Okay, so you guessed right. It was John’s family. He was four years old. I like to say that I peeked out of my mom’s belly button, saw John, and said, “I’m going to marry that guy some day.”

So I say a very Happy Birthday to the little guy that is now all grown up. How absolutely lucky and grateful I am for him. The love of my life. The one who is always making me laugh. Who is always making me feel special. Who is the most kindest and hard working man.  Happy Birthday my dear Johnnie.

My Joyful Pause Moments: Weekly Recap

What an absolutely beautiful Labor Day weekend. I hope wherever you are, you are enjoying your extended weekend. I LOVE this time of year and am excited to be heading into the fall season.

20140825_145734 12Though in a way it was hard to take off my old decals which had my Frankie on either side, I do love my new larger decals.

20140826_092615 eWhat a joyful and sweet surprise when I ran to the local laundromat to wash my king size comforter to meet this little cutie there.  Her name is Lola.  Her mom owns the laundromat… and yes, Lola runs it.

20140826_092741 eLola waiting for her mom to return after she stepped out to run a quick errand.

20140827_121836 sSeeing all my books in the display window at Seranya Art Boutique promoting awareness for our local humane society.

IMG_2108 sI love sitting in my chair on the deck and seeing the reflection of my writing cottage in my patio doors.

20140828_132324 sMiss G and I enjoyed lunch out together at one of our favorite places.

20140831_134603 16Lunch date with my Johnnie.

And this is Just How it Is.

kylie on bedIf I don’t make the bed right away in the morning, Kylie beats me to the punch and makes herself cozy after eating her breakfast.

And you know what I like about my wiser, older self?  So what. So what if the bed does not get made for a couple of hours. I just make half of the bed and let her linger as long as she wants. This is what matters–her happiness.

No one is going to care if my bed is made or not. But I care that Kylie is happy and content. This is just how it is and I like it. Such a relief it is to let go of so much perfectionism I had as my younger, not so wise self.