Painting the Night Away in Italy- A New Side of My Husband I Never Thought I’d See!

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Last night John and I were treated to a special painting party. Now, let me say, I can’t say I’d have ever pictured a day that we would be sitting next to each other lost in creativity. After 35 years together, I can say I fell in love in a new way with my husband last night.

As many of you may recall, John spent countless hours volunteering his time and construction talent to help build our dear friend and artist, Cassy Tully’s dream studio and framing shop. September through December were a flurry of activity making this dream come true.

Cassy studied in Italy and her shop reflects that Tuscan warm glow. Before the project began, Cassy presented John with a proposal of her dream studio dubbing it “Room to Bloom.” And bloom it did!

So were we really in Italy painting?  No, but it sure felt like it.  Enveloped between the warm yellow heavily textured walls, and archway behind us, surrounded by exquisite art, the front of Cassy’s studio looks out to the main street of Plymouth, Wisconsin. Peering outside through the large glass windows with the original stained glass that sit atop the windows, which perfectly match the Tuscan effect, cars whizzed by, and the family restaurant across the street was aglow. Next to Cassy’s studio is the new wine bar to our area called Pourvino.

Cassy got us started for our night of painting with each of us first sketching what we wanted to eventually paint. I decided on a tea cup, and of course in the color perwinkle, as that is my favorite color.

John began his sketch and we had to guess the location he was drawing. Near and dear to his heart are the many hours spent on a bench that sits in front of our home, which he spent talking with Cassy when she lived with us for the summer. Many hours of mentoring and bonding that bench holds.

Looking out into our yard from that bench and many days of sunshine, was the scenery John decided to sketch, and then paint.

I have to admit I was nervous about both sketching and painting, as I feel like I am not good at either. But with Cassy’s expertise and patience she shared with me that sketching, as well as painting is just a series of shapes.  Sure enough!  Before I knew it, I had drawn a tea cup with pencil and chalks.

John did beautifully with his sketch of our front yard and I loved peeking out of the corner of my eye to see him lost in his own little world. To see John relaxed and happy is one of my greatest treasures because he works so hard.

As I began to paint what I had now sketched, I was worried I’d make a mess of the whole thing. But again, Cassy cheered both John and I on, giving us tips as we moved through our enchanting creative venture.

As we painted away, people walked by on the sidewalk, some glancing in at us, or looking at the paintings in the windows.  Some made  their way into Pourvino. It was magical to be transported to a new place within myself, lost in thoughts of shapes, colors, and paintbrush gliding along the canvas, with the bustle of outside activity going on.

As John and I were well on our way creating our “masterpieces,” Cassy took a break and scampered outside, and down two buildings, to the best pizza place in town to pick up our to go order.

After filling our stomachs with delicious pizza, we picked up paintbrush once again to add the final touches to our paintings. True to all artists, one must sign their work, and Cassy encouraged us to do just that.

As I think about the wonderful evening last night, I can’t help but be reminded of how important experiences are. It is not the stuff in our lives that count, but the moments that carry our hearts through each day. It is what makes us rich. Rich in love. Rich in friendship. Rich in what matters.

Today, I count my blessings for feeling like the richest woman on earth after painting the night away.

Starving Artist Bistro Comes to Our Back Deck. Come Experience the Magic.

IMG_1742[1]Special does not even begin to express how wonderful our evening was last night.

Earlier this month we took our friend, Cassy, who is currently living downstairs in our home, along with her friend, Christy, to a Packer game.  They were so grateful for the gift of a fun night out that they wanted to return the favor. Of course, John and I didn’t expect anything in return, as it was a pleasure to treat them to the game.

When you know two amazingly creative artists, I should have known beautiful moments will come from that. Unexpected moments. Moments that will make your heart ooze with happiness, and pride, for all the thought that went into making a special night for John and I.

Earlier in the week we received a special invitation that said:  “We are honoring you to a date night at the Starving Artist Bistro.  You will dine on deliciousness prepared by acclaimed Chef Christy & Sous Chef Cassy at the back porch bistro by candlelight, lanterns, and chiminea.  Maitre d’Kylie will greet you upon your arrival and the lovely Joie will be your gracious hostess for the evening.”

Around 4:oo pm a flurry of activity began to happen outside on our deck and in our kitchen.  The creative duo began working their magic. As Chef Christy sliced, diced, simmered, and cooked up a storm in my kitchen, her sidekick, complete with bright pink bow in her hair, created magic on our deck turning a corner of it into a private table set just for two.

John and I enjoyed a cocktail on the deck as dinner was being prepared. The evening was so enchanting that I wanted to renew my wedding vows right then and there with John. It was that special.

Around 6:00 pm we were seated at our corner table (a.k.a. card table turned elegant!). As Sous Chef Cassy poured us each a glass of bubbly, Chef Christy explained our menu for the evening.  John and I enjoy going to the Paddock Club nearby now and then where they serve small plate specials on Tuesday evenings. The menu was designed around this very idea and made with many fresh ingredients.  To tease your taste buds I’ve created an album on Facebook of all the delicious dishes we were served, along with other fun pictures.  But here is a sneak peek inside the secret notes of Chef Christy:

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As we dined alfresco on our back deck, Joie and Kylie at our feet, I sat in awe that here John and I were, being treated to a very special evening. A night I’d have never imagined right here in our own home. Accepting Cassy into our lives this past spring was a big decision for us. We have had our ups and downs (more ups than downs) as we all learn to move within the space of our home with respect and thoughtfulness for each other.

John and I have grown in our own unique separate ways from the experience, as well as our relationship together has deepened  in a way I never saw coming. As we continue to mentor our young friend, we find our hearts growing bigger– we want the very best for Cassy. We love her dearly. It feels amazingly good to help someone take the next step toward living a life of authenticity and passion.

In return, Cassy finds ways in which she feels she can repay us, and last night was the treat of all treats. Though, as I’ve told her many times, she never needs to give us any thing or spend money on us.  Our reward will be when her wings are strong enough to fly off into the life she truly deserves. It will be a bittersweet day. But the moments of love, laughter and friendship we have created, and continue to create, will live on in all our hearts forever. Now that is magical.

To experience the magic of Christy and Cassy I invite you to check out their websites!  Fast Eddie’s Studio for Christy and Cassy Tully – Fine Art for Cassy.

Feng Shui Your Desktop

Recently I ran across an article in the Jan/Feb issue of Whole Living magazine about Feng Shui at Work written by Jayme Barrett, author of Feng Shui Your Life.

One of my big goals this year is to be more in balance like I have shared in early blog posts.  So far, so good! So when I saw the article about setting up your desk top Feng Shui I could hardly wait to put it all into place. I love my new space and you know, it really does feel balanced!  Below is a video of how I set up my desk Feng Shui and below the video read a bit more about what each area represents.

 

  • Back Left: Represents wealth
  • Middle Left:  Represents Family
  • Front Left:  Represents Knowledge
  • Back Center:  Represents Fame and Reputation
  • Middle Center: Represents Health
  • Back Right: Represents Relationships
  • Middle Right: Represents Creativity
  • Front Right: Represents Helpful People

For more information on Feng Shui you may want to check out Jayme Barrrett's website or pick up a copy of the Jan/Feb 2011 issue of Whole Living magazine.

Do you have your home or office set up Feng Shui?  If so, I'd love to hear about it!