It’s Been a Morning of Letting Go and Being Open to What is Next

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERATomorrow will be one year since Frankie died (stay tuned to a special post I have coming tomorrow).

I had planned on closing Frankie’s Facebook and Twitter account tomorrow, but decided  today was the right day to let it go. It feels right. Though Frankie’s Facebook page will still be there for 14 days, as I didn’t realize Facebook allows that time before completely deleting it.

Just as I let go of these two things that were so pivotal in my work with Frankie, a notice came from the hospice facility I volunteered with Frankie announcing a new volunteer coordinator has joined their team. I realized it was time to let that go as well. I emailed the coordinator letting her know she could remove me from her email database.  I promised I’d contact her if I decided to do therapy dog work again someday.

It’s not always easy to let go. But I do believe when we let go of what seems difficult, we pave the way for new opportunities to find us. I’m also reminded that being what feels like in ‘limbo” is a place to sit and be with my heart… and listen for what is next.

As I finish writing this post, my dear artist friend Cassy asked if I saw what she shared on Facebook this morning (and her timing couldn’t have been more amazing).  So I took a moment to look, and this is what she said: “Words can’t describe the feeling that comes after a masterpiece is complete & before a new body of work begins…”

Whether an artist, a writer, or no matter what it is you do…as with anything in life, we end and we begin again. Being open and trusting that what is next to unfold is what the journey is all about.

Inspiring Stories About Pets with Disabilities–Featuring Yours Truly– Joie, a Walk ‘N Roll Dog

DisabilitiesIt is with great honor that I announce my story of how I came to love another wheelchair dog, Joie,  is part of this wonderful new book from Happy Tails Books and Kylie Duffy, Lost Souls Found: Inspiring Stories About Pets with Disabilities. 

A portion of the proceeds, should you elect this as your charity of choice, will go to “Red Flyer,” so your donation can go toward providing carts for pets with mobility issues. I happen to think this is a pretty special thing!

About the book:

Some people with giant hearts set out to help pets with disabilities. Other people somehow come to have special-needs pets before they realize how blessed they are to have received the pet they needed, even if it wasn’t necessarily the pet they wanted at first. Whatever the case, many people find that their “special-abled” pets have added a new dimension to their lives that no readily-adoptable pet ever could.

Lost Souls: FOUND! Inspiring Stories About Pets with Disabilities is full of 40+ stories from people whose lives have been touched by “less-adoptable” animals, animals with physical or mental limitations that significantly affect their lives. These uplifting stories prove that animals with disabilities can prove to be equally good, if not better, companions than “normal” animals.

PRE-ORDER your copy today!  All orders will ship out first week of July.

All stories were submitted as volunteer and a way of helping spread a positive message about the many blessings pets with special needs are. I tip my hat and my heart to all those who love special needs pets and who submitted stories. And I am honored to proudly display this certificate in my writing cottage for recognition of my story of Joie as one of the feature stories.

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Helpful Products for Paralyzed Dogs– to Make their Life (and Yours) Easier

I thought I’d put a post together about all the things I have to help make  Joie’s life a little easier–and yes, mine as well.  There are many “tools” I’ve found that help in our day to day. While not all these things will be helpful if you have a big dog who is paralyzed, this is geared more toward small dogs since that is the experience that I have.  Often times I’ll post a photo on Facebook using one of my “tools” in our toolbox and get asked about it, so thought this post could have it all in one place.

DOG WHEELCHAIR (or referred to as dog cart)

When someone asks me about wheelchairs I refer them to Eddie’s Wheels. I feel they are best due to the fact the wheelchairs are custom-made. When dealing with spinal issues, I feel the support of custom-made is best.  As many of you know, who follow my blog regularly, the wheelchair Joie uses was actually Frankie’s wheelchair.  With guidance from Eddie’s Wheels, my husband John was able to make the adjustments so it fit Joie just right.

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DOG (PET) STROLLERS

I don’t know about other dogs in wheelchairs, but I do know that Frankie and now Joie could only walk so far in their wheels before they tired out.  Having a dog stroller gives them a break from walking, as well as enables you to go on longer walks if you want.  Also, if you do other activities with your wheelchair dog the stroller comes in handy for taking different places where dogs are allowed. It is easy to fold down and load in your car. I prefer the Jeep model as I didn’t want anything to “cutesy.”

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BICYCLE BASKETS for DOGS

I love and adore Cynthia’s Twigs and the European bicycle basket. It comes in four different sizes depending on the weight of your dog. You can also get a pillow for bottom of basket to make comfortable for your dog, as well as a basket liner to match the colors of your bike.  One thing I’d like to caution you on for those that have over zealous dogs who may attempt to jump out of the basket is to have them tethered in!  I’ll talk about a dog harness in a bit that I like, but what I did is took a leash and cut it down, leaving the metal clasp on one end.  I then looped the other end through the weave of the basket and sewed it in place.  It sort of acts like a leash/seatbelt holding the dog in place. The metal clasp from the leash then attaches to the D-ring on the harness making them more safe and secure in the basket.

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DOG HARNESS

In the above photo of Joie in the bicycle basket you see her wearing a stylish harness.  These are from Dachshund Delights and are called Hug-a-Dog Harness.  Not only do they come in oodles of fun fabrics, but they are very well made.  They are excellent for dogs who pull when on a leash, but also serve a beneficial purpose for dogs with back issues.  Because they have a D-ring on the back of the harness to attach the leash to, this takes all the pressure of the spine of dogs who are prone to back issues.  Also as mentioned in the bicycle basket information above you can attach the tethered leash attached to basket to the harness as well.

DOG BOOTS (Booties) and TAKE-A-LONG BAG (Dog carrier or sling)

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The orange dog boots on Joie’s paws are from Pawz Dog boots.  When she first began walking outside in her wheelchair her front paws would bleed so the booties helped protect the pads of her feet. They also serve as another purpose to help her get better traction on hardwood or tile flooring since this can be a little more trickier for her when in her wheelchair.  They can be used on the back feet if your dog drags their paws when walking, but won’t last too long before getting holes in them.  Here is a video I did for homemade dog boots that I make.

As for the dog carrier or dog sling, I found that the Take-a-long bag is the best from Dachshund Delights. I have not found any other dog carrier on the market that holds the length of a dachshund as well as this one. It is very well made and the strap is adjustable so that you can bear the weight of your dog easier for less strain on your back.

CATCH-IT-ALL (poop and potty catcher)

Frankie had a tougher time controlling her bladder then Joie does.  I also did many therapy dog visits and school visits with Frankie so wanted to be prepared in the event she had an “accident.”  I found this catch-it-all product years ago from K-9 cart company.  I had to adjust it by adding two velcro strips to go around the back of the wheelchair, but it worked like a charm. I also lined it with paper towel since Frankie was a girl and if she leaked the urine went right into the bag.  You can somewhat see the catch-it-all on this photo of Frankie.

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PROTECT-A-PET DRAG BAG

I used one of these when Frankie was first paralyzed but the one I purchased was made out of fabric, so it was harder for her to move around in it. I think the slippery material used by K-9 cart company would actually work better. Click here for more information about these.

LIVING WITH IVDD DVD

If your dog has been diagnosed with Intervertebral Disc Disease this is a must have DVD.  It is only $3.00 and will give you so much peace of mind.  Packed with care and tips on caring for a dog with IVDD as well as a paralyzed dog.  Great information on expressing the bladder and bowels.  Available from Dodgerslist.

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Do you have a product or idea that works well for caring for paralyzed pups?  If so, please do share in a comment below.  Include a link to product if you can so it will help others out who view this post.