Practicing Stillness

IMG_2060Have you ever noticed how well dog’s are at stillness? No practicing required.

We human’s, well, ah-hem, that is another story. Isn’t it interesting how we have to learn to be still?  This should be something we want to do, not something as another “to-do” on our list.

In the “True Self” class I am a part of each week, we are now delving into the Seven Spiritual Laws of Success that Deepak Chopra teaches. This past week we’ve been asked to sit in nature for five minutes each day and we also to just sit in stillness for five minutes each day.

We all have 10 minutes in a day to do this, right? Well, how interesting it is that the mind will find so many other things that are just too important that have to get done.

Today I cranked up the sitting in stillness to 15 minutes. I discovered the timer on my phone and I love it because it is one less thing my mind has to “worry” about.

But as I began this “stillness sitting” today, my mind began racing. I didn’t like the quiet. Which was odd, because often times I crave it. But today, it felt uncomfortable. The thought, “I’ve got too many things to do” floated through my mind. I felt myself wanting to get up out of my chair and start “doing.” I wrestled with my urges and thoughts. I bantered back and forth in my head.

I did my sitting right after lunch as I was feeling sluggish from writing and working all morning. I gave myself permission by inwardly saying, “You deserve this. You will feel great when you are done.” As I granted myself permission, I realized my shoulders, which were just up around my ears practically, gave a sigh of relief and melted back to their right place on my body.

I had a few more anxious moments with my stomach doing a few twirls, but then it happened —this space I had sunk into without realizing it. Time had disappeared and I was but for a millisecond without thought or distraction. Though the moment I realized this, my thoughts returned. But this time more calm, more serene, more centered, and more accepting.

As my timer chimed that time was up a few minutes later, I sat for a moment more, inwardly chuckling and wondering why we make sitting in stillness so difficult at times.

I imagine if Gidget and Kylie knew I put this much thought into meditating and practicing stillness that they would raise their little eyebrows but for a brief moment and sigh as if to say, “You silly human. You make life so complicated.”

And so it is… I continue my practice and observing the lessons of two wise dog’s.

My Joyful Pause Moments: Weekly Recap

One of the reasons I came up with my daily “joyful pause moment” is so that I will hopefully encourage you to look for your own joyful moment in each day. We can get so caught up in our busy lives and tend to have blinders on to all the beauty around us. Often times it only takes a moment to notice something that makes us smile and brings us joy. Mine are easily triggered by my dogs, animals and nature.

With that said, I must say I got caught up in my busy life this week and forgot to look for some of those moments. And you know what? I feel a difference in myself. Though for the most part I’m a pretty happy person, I realize how much happier I am when I take that moment to take in something that makes me smile. So I shall work on doing better this week!

But here is my recap for this week:

windchime 1200These windchimes have hung on a hook off my deck railing for a few years now. But all of a sudden I had a whim that I should hang them from the tree next to my writing cottage. So I followed the impulse and took great joy in placing them hanging from a branch, standing back, and admiring them.

myspaceMySpace.calm sign has hung above my writing cottage window ever since my husband built this 10 x 12 room for me about seven years ago. While doing yoga and in pigeon pose the other morning, it really called out to me. I sat in my pose for a few moments longer and felt this overwhelming gratefulness for this space of my own and the love and support of my husband who understands me (he dubbed my cottage, MySpace.calm).

10325732_10203068284321241_2715664139533545665_nI love this quote. It was the perfect quote to read on the day our “True Self” class started up again and will run for the next seven weeks.

10344361_10203080415824521_1038293599471040872_oOne of my favorite places for lunch in our small town – Off the Rail. Also a perfect place to meet for a cup of tea, which I did with a friend this week. I admit I didn’t take this photo, though I love it. The steam engine came through as a special event a few years ago. While this is a rare sight, we now have working trains coming through again when for years we didn’t. I LOVE to hear the whistle of the train when it does. Such nostalgia!

g and me having a cup of tea 12Me and G having a cup of tea. Well, okay, G does not drink tea, but I do! Also this was my attempt to sit in stillness for five minutes each day as is our “assignment” for the week from our True Self class. You know what I realized? One cannot sit still with a wiggly dachshund in their lap!

 

 

Two Years & 26 Dogs Later.

frankie fund bannerToday, the summer solstice, two years ago, is when Frankie made her transition into eternity.

Today I pay tribute to Frankie who changed my life in ways I never saw coming. I’m a better human being because of her. I carry her in my heart always. I no longer shed tears of sadness for the loss, but treasure the oodles of beautiful memories that light up my heart every time I think of her. To carry on her legacy through The Frankie Wheelchair Fund and National Walk ‘N Roll Dog Day are two of my greatest honors. I carry on your motto with pride: Always be positive, make a difference, and keep on rolling!

Guess what Frankie? Gidget and I are heading out on a special mission this morning.  I can’t help but think your spirit led us to do this. We will be doing a home inspection in a nearby city for an older couple wishing to adopt a chihuahua from a neighboring state. I have a feeling you’ve got a paw in helping this little one find her new home. We have accepted the mission and hope that this little new one has a new forever home soon. I have a feeling you already know the outcome.  Forever and always, I will love you my Frankie girl.