Date night at the eclectic Lake Street Cafe is one of our favorite places to hang out
In 2005 when I was going through the coaching process my coach, Diane, had me draw the shape of a pie. I then had to section the pie off and in each section write down things that were important to me, and brought me joy. I wish I still had that pie, but I do believe I know most of what I wrote in each section.
I think so often we tend to put everything or everyone ahead of our own needs. When our needs don’t get met… well, I think we all know how we get! Drawing that pie and really thinking about what I have to have in my life to bring me happiness is something I reflect back on often. I’m also very determined to keep those things (and people and animals!) that mean so much to me.
One of those things, which is really a person, who I love dearly, and part of what makes up my Joyful Paws moments, is time with John. Now yes, it seems like we are together 24/7 since we both work from home. But it is truly not the same as setting aside time to just talk and really be with one another. To listen, pay attention, and celebrate good things in our life as a couple and as our individual accomplishments.
John treasures date nights as much as I do. We both have said that no matter what happens in life, we will always do our darndest to make sure we always have our date nights. We never fail to have things to talk about and laughter is usually a big part of our evening. I feel so blessed to have someone I can laugh with. Isn’t laughter so good for the soul?
I remember years ago someone came up to John and I while we were having a drink at a restaurant. They commented on how we were so engaged with each other, facing each other, and talking. He pointed out that most couples around the bar were not talking or even looking at each other. It actually made me sad. This was years and years ago, but I never forgot it. It was a reminder that, yes, marriage does take work… but the rewards can be so wonderful.
I’m truly grateful for date nights with John. They are my mini-mini weekly vacations where all the cares of my life and the world fall away… and I feel snug and warm in the sweet love and devotion of My Johnnie.