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Jack the Therapy Dog- It was Meant to Be

Erica Manning Photography 

My sister in law, Shelly sent me the above photo yesterday. I found it so touching. Hard for it not to touch the depths of your heart, right?  She told me her friend, Erica took the photo and it is of her dog Jack (Jackson) and his work as a therapy dog.  With the wonders of Facebook I was able to connect with Erica and ask permission to share her photo, as well as have her agree to share Jack’s story.  I hope you will enjoy it as much as I did.  T hank you, Erica!

Jack’s story as told by Erica: 

My youngest daughter Sophie and I volunteer together at a local no-kill pet shelter.  She shares my love for both animals and giving back. 🙂  About a year and a half ago we were at this shelter cleaning puppy cages and re-stocking food bowls (with no intentions of finding a new puppy,mind you), and after keeping busy for over an hour we looked into a quiet cage that I previously thought was empty.  There I found a sweet black puppy – about 12 weeks old.  He didn’t make a sound, waited patiently for me to open the door and gave me a “hug” when I did.  I knew he was special.  We immediately started the adoption process.  Jackson was officially ours on President’s Day 2011.

We assume he is a Black Lab because he looks exactly like one, but he’s pretty small so he might be a mixed breed.  Either way we love him to pieces.

From day one Jack was VERY CALM for a Lab pup.  He had his crazy moments, but for the most part he was gentle and sweet.  I wanted to share that with others. When he was only about 6 months old I started the process of getting Jack certified as a “Canine Good Citizen.”  As expected he passed with flying colors.   About the same time a friend of mine, who works for a home health company, told me her company had been searching for a therapy dog to visit the assisted living facilities that they serviced.    It was meant to be!  Jack now visits three different assisted living facilities two times per month.  And he loves it.

At some of the facilities a group of residents gather in a common area and Jack goes from person to person, nudging their hand – encouraging them to rub on him.  If they have an empty chair next to them he has been known to climb up in it to be at eye level.  I know I don’t have to tell you how fulfilling it is to see how the simple act of petting a dog can bring joy to these residents’ lives.

Some of the residents have a hard time making it to the common area.  They either are not as mobile or too weak to spend much time out of their rooms.  Jack and I make “house calls” to these residents.  Jim is one of them.  Jim seems to be a cantankerous man when you first meet him.  But after a while both Jack and I realized that he has a keen, dry sense of humor and a warm heart.  This is most evident when he talks about his son, and his late wife.  He tears up every time.  He also loves Jack, and the feeling is mutual for sure.  Jack climbs into bed with Jim when he’s unable to get up, and would stay there for hours if permitted.  He also likes to “hold hands” with Jim – as seen in the photo.  He does that instead of “shake” – I think it soothes him to have his paw in someone’s hand.  I think it soothes Jim as well.  It’s awesome to watch the mutually beneficial relationship unfold.

I gave Jim a copy of the photo and to be perfectly honest – he didn’t like it.  He said his hand looked old!  The man is in his late 90s.  He has the mind of a wise 65 year old.  The heart of a child.

Book Review: Maggie, the dog who changed my life

As I turned the pages of Maggie, the dog who changed my life, I felt a powerful kindred spirit connection with Dawn and Maggie.  Their story is so similar to my own, and the path I am now on because of my own lab, Cassie Jo, who I lost to cancer in 2005.

What I love about Dawn Kairn is the fact that she opens her heart wide to the world in sharing Maggie’s story and their journey. She took an extremely difficult situation of realizing she should have followed her intuition, turned it into a positive, and now shares her truth in this deeply profound book.

We can probably all say that at least once in our life we have wished we followed our own intuition.  Dawn’s intuition of cancer in Maggie, along with her vivid dreams, which she recalled and wrote in exquisite detail after each dream, brought to light what her gut was telling her all along.

Even though there was a time Dawn could not forgive herself for not trusting what she believed was wrong with Maggie, she took a tough life changing lesson and turned into a blessing.  The blessing of helping others understand that if our intuition is telling us something about our beloved animal, to follow it, no matter what anyone else says.  She also takes all the heartache (and much joy) of her life with Maggie and shares it in this deeply moving memoir that I found very hard to put down. 

I laughed, reminisced, forgave myself for my own guilt with Cassie Jo, and cried for the loss of Maggie, who was a beautiful, knowing soul.  At times I felt as if Maggie and Cassie Jo were twins because of the amazing spiritual lessons they taught Dawn and I.

Dawn captures the essence and spirituality of dogs, as well as, eloquently gives us her heart by sharing Maggie with all of us, and I for one, am a better person for reading their story.

To learn more about Dawn and Maggie and to purchase a copy of her book visit her on her website