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How Vulnerability Can Be A Beautiful Gift in Memoir Writing– Plus Giveaway for a Copy of “Through Frankie’s Eyes”

Max, our Golden boy, reads about Frankie

Kathy’s dog, Max even thought he should perhaps read ” Through Frankie’s Eyes”

If someone would have told me years ago that being vulnerable is actually a beautiful thing, and not a weakness, I think I would have saved myself a lot of heartache.

This week on my Joyful Paws Jaunt blog tour Kathy Pooler hosts me on her memoir blog. Kathy is such a kind and open soul.  She cares deeply about helping others write their memoir’s as well as encouraging others to share their story.  We talked in early February about what might be best for a guest post for me to write for her blog.  Being scared to write ones story came up for me as I was soon launching my new book.  It was also relevant to Kathy as she is working on her memoir as well.

Vulnerability really struck a chord with each of us, as well as we believe for others, so the subject seemed a good one to write about.  So I invite you to click on over to Kathy’s blog and check out my guest post.  Please do leave a comment and you will have a chance to win a copy of “Though Frankie’s Eyes.”  Even if you have purchased a copy, still do leave a comment and if you win, giving my book might be a great gift for a friend.

There really seems to be much talk about vulnerability lately with Dr. Brene Brown sitting down recently to talk with Oprah about her book Daring Greatly after researching and studying vulnerability and shame for the past twelve years. If more of us embrace vulnerability and leave shame behind, imagine the possibilities!

**If you have read my book and would like to have your dog featured on my special board on Pinterest, please do email me (barb (at) joyfulpaws (dot) com) your dogs photo posing with my book!**

A Book about the Healing Love of Animals- Win a Copy!

My friend and colleague, author Peggy Frezon is giving away a copy of her new book, Heart to Heart: Hand in Paw. I had the wonderful opportunity to review this book and shared my video review in a recent post.  Be sure to visit her blog post soon to enter the giveaway, as the offer is only good through this Friday, June 15th, 2012.

GOOD LUCK!

 

Announcing A New Book by Barbara Techel-coming 2012


This is only a mock-up of a cover for my new book- this won’t be the finished cover- but it serves as my visual to keep me inspired as I write my new book

I’m officially announcing, that yes, I’m working on a new book. I’ve given a hint or two about it on my Facebook page, but other than that, I’ve kept it pretty much to myself. I’ve had to build my confidence that I could write this book. I’m still working on that part- but getting stronger every day.

“Through Frankie’s Eyes- Lessons Learned from a Dachshund on Wheels” right now, is the working title and could change, but for now this is what it is. The title and a mock-up cover are great visuals for me to keep me encouraged to keep going.

As many of you know, to date I’ve written children’s books about my special needs dachshund, Frankie, as well as many articles on animals, and articles on book marketing, etc. To write a nonfiction adult book is a new challenge for me. A bigger challenge yet is that the book is about me- my transition in my early 40’s which had me seriously contemplating what this thing called life was all about after my chocolate lab, Cassie was diagnosed with terminal bone cancer. This led me to hiring a life coach, which led me to begin writing, which led me to Frankie’s diagnoses of Intervertbral disc disease (IVDD)… which ultimately shaped my life in a way I would have never imagined.

Over five years ago when I decided to pursue writing, I had all intentions of writing this book, then. But after attending a writing conference in 2007, 11-months after Frankie’s IVDD diagnoses, I realized I was meant to write Frankie’s children’s books first. This book would have to wait… or maybe it would never be written. But in January of this year, the thought began to dance in my head and it wouldn’t let me rest. So following that call, I figured now was the right time to begin this book. I have so much more to share now about all I’ve learned because of my dogs, and mostly from my little dog on wheels who has taught me some of life’s greatest lessons.

I was excited to begin this book but found myself struggling greatly at the beginning as if I was trudging through mud. Sharing me with the world seems a daunting, scary task. What to share, what not to? How to say it- how not to say it? But I’ve been very inspired lately by Jon Katz and his blog post writings. This encourages me to keep going.

I will keep going, and find myself these last few weeks feeling like I am not trudging through mud anymore, but looking more forward to my writing sessions. Looking forward to a book that I hope will help others live a more joyful life- one with meaning, balance and purpose. I personally still work on the balancing part and think I always will. But I’ve become so much more aware of living my life in balance, so when things get of a whack, I seem to recognize it sooner and it helps me get back on track. I also sometimes worry about my purpose and what it will look like when Frankie passes on. But writing it all down the last few months has made me stronger and gives me faith that new adventures and purpose awaits me at some point… so we shall see what comes of this book as I continue to fine tune and move forward.

So far I’ve written 52,217 words which I think is a big accomplishment. I feel myself getting closer to finishing the first draft and then will send it off to my editor… but for now I’m taking this step of making this announcement which feels right to me now. It means I’m making progress in my confidence department. 🙂

Before I began writing this book almost 10-months ago I picked a card from Dr. Wayne Dyer’s Inspiration cards (he is my all time favorite motivational/spiritual teachers), which I keep next to the mock-up cover of my book cover. When I let fear creep into my writing and sharing my book with the world, I refer back to this card and it reminds me, just as it says, “Expect the Best.”


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