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My Sabbitical Complete. I’m Happy to be Back.

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Dear Friends,

I am back.  My sabbatical complete in many ways. Thank you for your kind and compassionate patience as I took some time to clear my mind and refresh my soul.

When I decided to leave my blog and newsletter  in September, I felt quite empty. I felt like I had nothing more to give. Being someone who enjoys sharing, inspiring and encouraging others, I felt I just couldn’t offer any of those things with how I was feeling. At the same time, it was very hard to step back and trust that this was the right thing to do. It’s  important to me to be as positive as I can and share that with others, so when I felt I just couldn’t do that, I knew it was time to step away for awhile.

One big thing I’ve realized is how important sabbatical’s really are. Our Western society doesn’t seem to put enough value on them.  Though I had many moments of restlessness thinking I should just jump back in, I stayed the course. That in itself I am proud to have achieved.

I will share more about what I’ve learned through my sabbatical as I dive back into my daily blogging and bi weekly newsletter.  But I want to also acknowledge that there may be circumstances in others’ lives that two months like I did, is just not possible.  But I do believe we can find ways to carve out time, even small moments, in our everyday lives to simply just “be.” It is something that is no doubt a practice and one that I am going to try to practice more often.  Maybe not in two month increments, but broken down in smaller moments.

Journaling was something I did everyday as I went through grieving the loss of Joie, wondering about where I go from here, and thinking about what is important to me.  I’ve come back to the very same things I knew for certain when I left:

*I love writing and connecting with all of you, writing about dachshunds, dogs, animals, IVDD, and living a meaningful, joyful, and simple life.

*I will continue to be an advocate for dogs with disc disease (IVDD) and dogs in wheelchairs.

*I want to bring another special needs dachshund into my life.

I still consider myself in the exploring stage of anything other than this. But I continue to do work around that by gathering articles, information, etc. that speaks to me, as well as taking more time to read about avenues that interest me.

The above photo is of a new view from my desk in my writing cottage. During my sabbatical I did some rearranging and my desk now faces southeast which it never has before. A new perspective as I reflected (and continue to) about many things.

I’m happy to be back. It is my hope that with what I’ve learned for myself during sabbatical will serve to inspire and encourage you to do what you feel is best for you to live your best life.

Starving Artist Bistro Comes to Our Back Deck. Come Experience the Magic.

IMG_1742[1]Special does not even begin to express how wonderful our evening was last night.

Earlier this month we took our friend, Cassy, who is currently living downstairs in our home, along with her friend, Christy, to a Packer game.  They were so grateful for the gift of a fun night out that they wanted to return the favor. Of course, John and I didn’t expect anything in return, as it was a pleasure to treat them to the game.

When you know two amazingly creative artists, I should have known beautiful moments will come from that. Unexpected moments. Moments that will make your heart ooze with happiness, and pride, for all the thought that went into making a special night for John and I.

Earlier in the week we received a special invitation that said:  “We are honoring you to a date night at the Starving Artist Bistro.  You will dine on deliciousness prepared by acclaimed Chef Christy & Sous Chef Cassy at the back porch bistro by candlelight, lanterns, and chiminea.  Maitre d’Kylie will greet you upon your arrival and the lovely Joie will be your gracious hostess for the evening.”

Around 4:oo pm a flurry of activity began to happen outside on our deck and in our kitchen.  The creative duo began working their magic. As Chef Christy sliced, diced, simmered, and cooked up a storm in my kitchen, her sidekick, complete with bright pink bow in her hair, created magic on our deck turning a corner of it into a private table set just for two.

John and I enjoyed a cocktail on the deck as dinner was being prepared. The evening was so enchanting that I wanted to renew my wedding vows right then and there with John. It was that special.

Around 6:00 pm we were seated at our corner table (a.k.a. card table turned elegant!). As Sous Chef Cassy poured us each a glass of bubbly, Chef Christy explained our menu for the evening.  John and I enjoy going to the Paddock Club nearby now and then where they serve small plate specials on Tuesday evenings. The menu was designed around this very idea and made with many fresh ingredients.  To tease your taste buds I’ve created an album on Facebook of all the delicious dishes we were served, along with other fun pictures.  But here is a sneak peek inside the secret notes of Chef Christy:

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As we dined alfresco on our back deck, Joie and Kylie at our feet, I sat in awe that here John and I were, being treated to a very special evening. A night I’d have never imagined right here in our own home. Accepting Cassy into our lives this past spring was a big decision for us. We have had our ups and downs (more ups than downs) as we all learn to move within the space of our home with respect and thoughtfulness for each other.

John and I have grown in our own unique separate ways from the experience, as well as our relationship together has deepened  in a way I never saw coming. As we continue to mentor our young friend, we find our hearts growing bigger– we want the very best for Cassy. We love her dearly. It feels amazingly good to help someone take the next step toward living a life of authenticity and passion.

In return, Cassy finds ways in which she feels she can repay us, and last night was the treat of all treats. Though, as I’ve told her many times, she never needs to give us any thing or spend money on us.  Our reward will be when her wings are strong enough to fly off into the life she truly deserves. It will be a bittersweet day. But the moments of love, laughter and friendship we have created, and continue to create, will live on in all our hearts forever. Now that is magical.

To experience the magic of Christy and Cassy I invite you to check out their websites!  Fast Eddie’s Studio for Christy and Cassy Tully – Fine Art for Cassy.