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Be More Dog – A Touching Story of a Tripawd that Reminds Us to Live in the Now

My wheelie dog, Frankie, from one of my favorite photos of her. I decided to take this photo of her next to the book “Be More Dog.” I couldn’t help but think she is admiring and saying, “Way to go, Jerry G. Dawg for spreading a positive message!”

As many of you know if you’ve been here on my blog since it began in 2007, my life took a pivotal turn when my dachshund, Frankie, became paralyzed and would live the remaining six years of her life in a wheelchair. It changed me on a deep level and one which I remain grateful for today.

There is just something about those ‘special needs’ dogs that will always touch my heart. One evening my husband, John was scrolling a group we belong to on Facebook called R-pod owners. Those of us who own these modern, but with a vintage flair campers, share many ideas, places we visit with our R-pods, and ask questions when we are stumped.

But this night, John came across a book someone posted called, Be More Dog – Learning to Live in the Now – Enjoying Every Day to the Fullest on the Road to Happiness and he tagged me on the post. The book is written by a couple, Jim Nelson and Rene Agredano, and tells the story of their German shepherd who is diagnosed with bone cancer and has his front limb amputated. After his recovery, they make the decision to hit the road in their RV to make the best of the time they have left with their dog, Jerry G. Dawg.

Not only have John and I shared our life with three special needs dachshunds over the years, two of which had wheelchairs, but our first dog, a chocolate Lab was diagnosed with the same thing as Jerry G. Dawg. Though her tumor was in her hip and pressing on her spine which made surgery too great of a risk. We opted for an experimental drug at the time which gave her another quality of life ten months.

So I just knew I had to read this book and ordered it right away. It only took me three nights to read as it pulled me along on their adventures.

While I’ve never experienced life with a Tripawd like the amazing and sweet Jerry G. Dawg, I understand the heart of what Rene and Jim experienced.

Their love for Jerry is so evident in the pages of Be More Dog. The fact that they just knew they had to spread a positive message about tripod dogs makes this story even more special as they then formed a Tripawd community. They have helped thousands of people with pets who have lost a limb.

As I read their story, my heart rejoiced with them as they encountered people on their travels who often had never met a 3-legged dog and the pride and joy they took in educating others sharing with them that Jerry was still an active, loving and happy dog. It brought back fond memories of my wheelie dog, Frankie when we educated young and old through my children’s books and memoir, and visiting schools and libraries, that paralyzed dogs can live fulfilling lives too.

I walked in understanding beside them as the story evolves to that day we all know will come, but find it so hard to bear. I applaud them for really feeling through every emotion and doing what they felt was best for Jerry each step of the way.

I was especially moved by a chapter in the book where they meet an intuitive animal healer. They had made their way to a campground in Vermont when they were approached one evening by the daughter of the campgrounds founders, Lesley.

She was intrigued by Jerry and explained, “I work with pets and people to take them on spiritual journeys. I try to heal souls and make people happier by helping them understand their animal companions better.” She asked if she could do a reading on Jerry to which they agreed.

When she relayed back to them what she received, it was confirmation for them that those times they doubted if they were doing the right and best for Jerry, that Lesley assured them that Jerry was happy and pleased for the opportunity he’d been given.

Rene and Jim had recorded what Lesley shared with them. I was really touched at the end of the short clip when Lesley said, “When the healthier you are, the healthier your pets will be.” 

This was something I learned and became so much more aware of and the teaching I received from my dog, Gidget, and which I wrote about in my memoir (and soon to be released), I’m Fine Just the Way I Am- Healing Emotional Pain through the Wisdom of Animals and Oracles.

In 2018 as I did the inner work I was being called to do to heal a past wound, I eventually came to feel a healing shift within myself. As I continued on my self-healing path I was honored and given the most precious gift of witnessing in Gidget a shift in her energy also. By doing my healing work not only did it bring more stability, peace and calm to my life, but it gave this same gift to Gidget.

As Rene and Jim continued their journey with Jerry G. Dawg they too are changed on a level that one can’t always express in words, but can only be felt by the heart.

Special needs dog or not, Be More Dog is one every animal lover should read. But what makes a story such as this one so impactful is that within a special needs animal, we are given the opportunity to see into ourselves the parts of us that feel wounded. And this is where the true beauty of this story shines because animals truly want us to heal and why they stand beside us with such devotion and loyalty.

So bravo to Jerry G. Dawg! And to Rene and Jim for their words on the pages about their beautiful and touching journey with you. It left this dog lover with a heart that expanded once again because of the teachings of Dog that never fail to make us better humans.

xo,

Barbara

P.S. Rene is also a metalsmith and makes the most beautiful paw print and cat and dog jewelry. Check it out!

Here’s a short video to learn more about Be More Dog.

A New Chapter. Our Vamper, “Second Chance,” Gets a Friend.

Turn the page to a new chapter in our lives and here we are. 

We were up early Sunday morning with the birds so we could be on the road by 7:30 a.m. We drove about an hour to check out this used 2017 Forest River 180 R-pod that was for sale. It was hardly used since the owner purchased it new and has only 1,400 miles.

As we were driving down the road I looked over at John. The past few years he has earned some gray hair with it mostly showing at his temples. It endears me to him even more. What a privilege to experience mid-life with him. His biological father died at the age of 36-years old when John was just seven. At times this moves through me in an emotional way and has me feeling blessed to be this far in my journey with John.

A mix of emotions struck me as I looked over at John and said, “Here we are. Just two middle-aged folk up early goin’ to look at a camper! How did we get here so fast?”

John still has six years until retirement, or as we like to call it, a new phase in our lives. But for now we hope to travel to warmer climates in the winter more as his work schedule allows.

So as many of you know a few years ago we began converting one of John’s Chevy work vans to a camper and we took it on a few runs. It served its purpose well. We dubbed it “The Vamper” and also named it “Second Chance.” It represented to us that even though we were hit hard by the fall of the economy in 2008, this was our ticket to do some exploring away from home.  It also allowed us to take our dogs along. 

I’m grateful that we experienced life in this way traveling when we could in our van converted to a camper.

As we thought about longer trips away – more than a week – we didn’t feel the Vamper would be all that comfortable. We aren’t able to stand up in it, it does not have a bathroom (though we have a portable toilet) and it also still needs a kitchen. With John’s full work schedule, it’s been a challenge to finish.

So while we weren’t really looking, it all began with John spotting a camper van for sale in our town. One thing led to another and lots of discussion and here we were driving to look at this R-pod. 

On a side-note, being the sentimental gal that I am as we discussed buying something that would be more comfortable I became emotional. It felt so bittersweet. We had traveled in the van with both our dogs, Kylie and Gidget. Now both gone. It felt like if we got an upgraded van camper that it was like saying goodbye to that part of our life too. Though of course, the memories stay with us always.

As you can see by the photo above, we purchased the R-pod. It is in mint condition and we got a good deal on it. It has a full bathroom, great storage, a kitchen with two-burner stove, convection oven, a nice sized refrigerator, a quaint kitchen table, and queen sized bed.

The bonus is that our Vamper will pull the R-pod. Which means we feel incredibly blessed to travel with that much more storage space! We half-joking also said that the vamper could be like my writing cottage on wheels. Oh, the possibilities!

Sunday evening we celebrated with an adult beverage sitting inside the R-pod right in our driveway. At one point with a grin on his face, John said, “Now, you aren’t going to girly it all up are you?” 

The first trip we hope to take with it is to Arizona the winter of 2020. In the meantime, I’m looking forward to moving things from the vamper into the R-pod and organizing…plus no doubt, a few “girly” touches may just magically appear.  🙂

XO,

Barbara

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Interview with Author Lori Helke Inside Her Vintage Writing Retreat Camper

As promised earlier this week, here is the inspiring and uplifting interview to share with you with my friend and new author, Lori Helke.

The interview took place inside Lori’s Paris themed vintage camper named Beatrice (see photos of the inside below!). We discuss Lori’s love of travel and how it fulfills a special space in her heart, overcoming fear, the inner journey, mid-life, the power of an oracle reading, and her children’s book (about Beatrice!), plus a sneak peek at what she is working on writing next.

Lori now invites you inside for a tour of Beatrice!…

Lori’s sweet pup, Zoe loves to hang out in Beatrice. This table is headquarters for Lori’s writing projects and her blog on travel.
Folds down into a bed

And heeeeeeeeeere’s Beatrice with her own children’s book, the first in a series, written by Lori!

I smiled the whole way through reading this sweet book! It’s endearing, touching, funny, and heartwarming.

About Lori Helke:

Lori is an Author/Travel Writer from Wisconsin whose mission it is to inspire women to conquer their fears through travel. She just published her first children’s book Beatrice The Little Camper Gets Rescued about her little vintage camper named Beatrice and is looking forward to writing a whole series based on Beatrice’s adventures. Currently, along with writing about her travels on her blog, she has begun writing a memoir based on her first trip to Paris and how it changed her life. Learn more about Lori at:

www.lorilovesparis.com and/or www.lorihelke.com

Thank you so much, Lori, for spending time talking with me inside your adorable, sweet, special space! I’m so happy for you and enjoy watching you continue to follow your heart!

XO,

Barbara

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