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Soul Tending Tools in my Toolbox

Posted by Barbara Techel

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It seems that many of us want that one thing that will be it. That one thing that will be the answer to our souls calling or help us when we sometimes feel stressed, lost, or alone.

I can say this, as it is how I’ve felt before (and sometimes still do!). But then I realized over the years I’ve actually put together a pretty nice toolbox to help me through some of life’s tougher moments — or simply just to inspire me. Of course, I visualize my toolbox as periwinkle and chartreuse green—my favorite colors together.

So I wanted to share some of my “tools” with you today as maybe you will like them, too. We have so much more available to us these days than we ever have before.

My Soul Tending Toolbox:

IMG_2130**Walks in nature with my dogs.

**Reading books that encourage and inspire, such as Joan Anderson’s many books about being an unfinished woman. Her newest, a collection of essays, “Stretch Marks” which I enjoyed very much. FYI- being an “unfinished” woman is a good thing.61YfflDyolL._AA160_

**Daily Yoga practice.

**Doreen Virtue’s Angel cards, Dawn Brunke’s The Animal Wisdom Tarot cards and Cheryl Richardson’s acGrace and Self-Care cards.

**Meditating. I like Calm, Oprah and Deepak Chopra (they offer free 21 day meditations quite often) and Brain Wave Altered State app.

**I’ve also turned to life coaches when I feel stuck, such as Diane at Lead Your Life, and Pam at Meaningful Life Counseling and Coaching.

**Reiki is another tool that I became trained in a few years ago. I especially love practicing this with Gidget right now. When I do, I feel this deepening with her, which lights up my soul.

**Recently I’ve been reading more about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) or also called Tapping. I’ve tried it a few times and definitely felt a shift when I do this simple and quick method.

**Something new I did this year during the month of January was to createll a mandala with my desires and conditions for the year using the book by Janet Conner, The Lotus and the Lily. Seeing my mandala every day hanging on the wall in my writing cottage is a reminder that I can live the life I want.

**Hay House Radio, radio for your soul (some of my favorite hosts, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Dr. Christiane Northrup and Cheryl Richardson).

facilitator_logo-slogan_H2v1_1**Last, but not least, something I’m really excited about is having discovered SoulCollage®. A unique way of strengthening your intuition and listening to your soul using images. I became a facilitator because I’m so intrigued by it and wish to share this powerful and fun soul tending process with others. I’ll be teaching my first workshop in April!

Do I do all of these every day? No, but I have them in my “toolbox” and choose what feels right for me on any given day, moment or time.

Do you have a particular resource or “tool” that you especially like? Please leave a comment below. I’d love to hear!

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Intrigued about SoulCollage®? Learn more about the introduction workshop I am teaching and register here.

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To the Sea – You and Me

Posted by Barbara Techel

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There we were. Me in my big, floppy periwinkle hat, sitting in the sand, my knees hugging my chest. In the space between my thighs and chest, is you, peeking over the top of my knees, with the brim of my hat acting as an umbrella over your soft, petite head.

The sun is setting as we gaze out into the ever darkening sea. The waves gently lapping up to touch my toes every few moments.

Something about the water as if spirits are dancing on the waves reminding us that we are all connected. We can visit this inner place any time we want whether sitting on the beach, out for a walk, lying in bed, or wherever. It’s always there.

Each time this has happened, I feel this warm glow of knowing rise up in me. It makes me smile. We don’t speak, yet we know there is something real happening between us that needs no words.

This last week I began practicing what I was trained in a few years ago, which is Reiki. It means spiritual or universal energy. Practicing Reiki, which is like a meditation, is holding the space for another to accept and take (or not), whatever it is they wish for their own healing.

Miss Gidget has been the recipient of my practicing this again. And the last three days I find us on the beach as I described above during the Reiki session.

At first, like our minds always try to do, I tried to analyze it. Why are we on the beach? Why does this scene keep popping in my head? Were we once there together in another lifetime? Am I crazy? Why have I pictured this scene three days in a row now?

But then I let it go and sink down into my heart. This is the place I want to be. This place of no explanation. This place of feeling loved, safe and secure. And this is the gift. Not only to me, but to Gidget as well.

This is our connection – a bond between you and me that is ours and only ours – and it is real- and beautiful.

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Reiki with Joie is Reminding Me–No Expectations

Posted by Barbara Techel

joie reversed 594Over the weekend I got this photo of Joie while holding her in my lap sitting in my adirondack chair. I reversed the camera on my ipad to snap this shot. I love this photo of her.

I realized over the weekend, holding her often, that she seems more relaxed in my arms lately.  I thought back to when she first arrived last October and how rigid she would be when I tried to cuddle with her.  As we sat around the chiminea Friday and Saturday night she seemed to melt more into my arms.  It felt wonderful.

She has also started something new when I snuggle with her each morning.  She lays on our bed while I put my make up on and curl my hair. When I’m done I sit with her for a moment and pet her, telling her how much I love her. As I did this the last few times, she has now begun to roll onto her side with her little front leg in the air.  I feel like it is a sign of trust and she is opening herself more to me.

To date I’ve done seven Reiki sessions with her. Letting go of any expectations. This is what Reiki teaches. To allow yourself to be open to the energy and to let it work for the good of not only me, but for Joie as well.

As I did Reiki today, I sat in my wicker chair in my writing cottage. I have a harder time sitting on the hardwood floor with my legs crossed for the twenty minutes without my knees hurting.  Joie was curled under her blanket on the rug by the door.  When the session was done I opened my eyes to see her snuggled in her bed, fast asleep. I smiled and was deeply moved as this is a good sign that she was completely relaxed.

I am reminded each time I do Reiki to let it do whatever it is meant to do. I have no control. Letting go of that is not always easy. I find my mind racing, wanting answers and wanting Joie to feel the best she can feel— now.  But it does not work that way.  Just as in life, we have to let go and be open. I am a work in progress.