Caroline Knapp

The Intricate Bond Between People & Dogs

I love quotes.  I have a journal with "regular" quotes and one with animal quotes.  So today as I looked for a quote to share on my facebook wall, I came across one of my favorite's by Author Caroline Knapp.

"Dogs possess a quality that's rare among humans- the ability to make you feel valued just by being you."

This was in Caroline's book called, Pack of Two which was about her relationship with her dog Lucille.   Caroline died in 2002 at the age of 43. and when I was reading the book a few years ago and then realized she had died, I was sad quite.  But I was so glad she wrote this book, because it was one of my favorite.

Here is a review from Amazon about the book published in 1999:

Caroline Knapp is head over heels in love–not with a human being, but with her mixed-breed dog, Lucille. From the moment Lucille first locked eyes with Knapp through the bars of an animal shelter cage, the intelligent, pointy-eared mutt began to transform Knapp's life. Reeling from the deaths of both her parents, a breakup with a long-term boyfriend, and her newly won sobriety after a 20-year battle with the bottle (which was skillfully chronicled in a previous memoir, Drinking: A Love Story), Knapp found in Lucille not only companionship, but "consistency, continuity, connection. In a word, love." Although she doesn't regard Lucille as a replacement for alcohol and lost loved ones, Knapp does believe "that in loving her I have had that sense of being filled anew and essentially redirected, an old identity shattered and a new one emerging in its stead." In Pack of Two Knapp, with the help of dog psychiatrists, trainers, breeders, and owners, explores the partnership between human and dog and the mysteries of the canine mind–how dogs love, how they think, and how they see human beings. And despite her findings that the dog will remain essentially "mysterious … unknowable," Knapp is ultimately at peace with this, still devouring the moments when dog and human can "transcend the language barrier" to "understand what the other wants and feels." This book pays homage to the wonderful and complex relationship between one woman and her dog. –Naomi Gesinger