Christmas

One of My Favorite Christmas Traditions

20131222_101630One of my favorite Christmas traditions is spending the night at my dear friend’s house. She calls me Sistah B and I call her Sistah V. We’ve known each other for about 15 years now, though I feel like I’ve known her forever.

I’ve always referred going to her house as “going to Grandma’s.”

I LOVE all her holiday decorations. Many from days gone by. Sistah V is also a great cook. We always have yummy snacks and good things to eat.  She recently moved, and though the move was tough in many ways, her new home was just as warm and welcome. No matter where she goes I told her, it is because of her and all the sweet things that surround her, that makes it home no matter the street she lives on.

So I share a bit of my favorite tradition with a sneak peek inside my Sistah V’s house.

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20131221_174854Partridge in a Pear Tree towel from my Sistah V

20131222_101448Moon and Star pj’s for my Sistah V who loves anything with moons and stars. Also bought her the pretty scarf.  Tasha the owl which I gave her for her birthday this past summer.

20131222_101243Sistah V surprised me by taking me to a darling little yarn shop in her town called Magpie Cottage. Once there I got to pick out something that she said she would knit for me.  Wait until you see the beautiful vest she is knitting me!  Here is sneak peek of colors.

20131222_094756Next morning got Gidget all snuggled up for the ride home.  Gidget’s ear just wouldn’t cooperate and stay tucked inside her scarf!

20131222_101907The view out Sistah V’s window (her sister plowing the driveway) right before we headed out.  Yup, we had a big snowstorm to drive home in. But made it home safe and sound.

Another year, another wonderful memory made.  Oh, how I love this Christmas tradition at Sistah V’s!

Merry Christmas From Our Home to Yours (Wagging Tails and All!)

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Dear Friends,

I share with you a special Christmas letter of short captions and photos I’ve put together!

It is memories and experiences that make our lives meaningful.

 My wish for you this holiday season, and always, are memories to warm your heart and new experiences to enrich your life.

Merry Christmas and all the best in 2014!

2014 brought many blessings, a few goodbyes, and some wonderful welcomes…

January 2013:  We welcomed my brother, Keith, home after serving nine months in Afghanistan. We are so proud of his service, and all the men and women who continue to serve.

February 2013: I published my memoir, Through Frankie’s Eyes: One woman’s journey to her authentic self and the dog on wheels who led the way.

May 2013:  We welcomed our dear friend, Cassy Tully, into our home, guiding her through a major life transition. In the process, little did we know, we’d become our special definition of a family.

July 14, 2013: We said goodbye to my Uncle Dale—one of the hardest working men we ever knew!

July 18, 2013: I turned 50!  Something I embraced with open arms and am so happy to have arrived—not everyone is lucky enough to say that.

August 2013: Joie had the amazing opportunity to play her cute self in wheels in the film, “The Surface.” Filmed in Mequon by producer Jeff Gendelman and directed by Gil Cates, Jr. It was the opportunity of a lifetime! Though her part is very short (no pun intended!) she will represent all dogs in wheelchairs around the world when the movie comes out in theatres later in 2014.

August 22, 2013:  Just a little over a week after being on the set of the movie, we had to say goodbye to our sweet, little Joie.  Complications we were unaware of when we adopted her came without much warning. Though our hearts broke, we did the most humane thing for her and set her free. She was such a gift.

September 2013:  Our “little bird,” Cassy, decided to spread her wings and fly out on her own into a little apartment of her own. Shortly after that, we all took a memorable trip to Door County, giving thanks for all the blessings of the summer, and reminisced in how we all grew in many ways!

October 2013:  A fun-filled trip was made to Asheville, North Carolina.  We had a blast!

October 2013:  Kylie weighs in at 80 pounds- down from 105 pounds in December 2012.  Her secret?  A change in lighter food and no longer “cleaning” plates.

October and November 2013:  John gave of his time and talent building Cassy’s dream of a new studio and custom frame shop.

November 14, 2013:  We welcomed a new special needs dachshund into our lives—Gidget! And yes, as you already know– she has stolen our hearts!

November 17, 2013:  John and I celebrated 29 years of marriage!

November 21, 2013: We welcomed a woodstove into our little cottage. Ever since we visited Vermont two years ago, staying in an 800 ft. rental cottage with a woodstove, we dreamed of adding one to our cozy home.  We love it!

December 2013:  We were proud to showcase the talent of John and his craftsmanship of Cassy Tully – Fine Art during Cassy’s Grand Opening.

As always, I continue to be so very grateful for your support in reading my blog and books, as well as your support of my mission and special needs pets.

Wishing you a beautiful Christmas!

With gratitude and Love,

Barbara

My Unconventional Christmas Tree Speaks to Me

2013-12-08 17.00.31 cI haven’t had a “normal” Christmas tree for a few years now.

Years ago I remember visiting a friends home during the holiday who lived by what I call her own heart strings.  On her piano she had a large vase that contained branches that had fallen from tree’s outside her home.  She hung her Christmas ornaments on the branches and strung a string of lights. I loved that tree.

It took me a few years to break away from the tradition of a pine tree. Back then I’d worry, “What would people think if I had a branch tree?” But now that I live by my own heart strings, I do what makes me happy. I took my friends idea and use it as my own now. It makes me smile every time I look at it.

It also always makes me think of her every Christmas. She moved away years ago and this time of year always has me wondering how she is doing.

I love my tree because it brings the indoors in. It also reminds me of how nature inspires me. How it reminds me of all that we have is this moment. Right here, right now.

My tree stays up all year. Once Christmas is done, I’ll re-decorate it for the winter, then spring, summer and fall.

My unconventional Christmas tree is my reminder to continue to be me. Oh special Christmas tree, how I love thee!