animal human bond

Be More Dog – A Touching Story of a Tripawd that Reminds Us to Live in the Now

My wheelie dog, Frankie, from one of my favorite photos of her. I decided to take this photo of her next to the book “Be More Dog.” I couldn’t help but think she is admiring and saying, “Way to go, Jerry G. Dawg for spreading a positive message!”

As many of you know if you’ve been here on my blog since it began in 2007, my life took a pivotal turn when my dachshund, Frankie, became paralyzed and would live the remaining six years of her life in a wheelchair. It changed me on a deep level and one which I remain grateful for today.

There is just something about those ‘special needs’ dogs that will always touch my heart. One evening my husband, John was scrolling a group we belong to on Facebook called R-pod owners. Those of us who own these modern, but with a vintage flair campers, share many ideas, places we visit with our R-pods, and ask questions when we are stumped.

But this night, John came across a book someone posted called, Be More Dog – Learning to Live in the Now – Enjoying Every Day to the Fullest on the Road to Happiness and he tagged me on the post. The book is written by a couple, Jim Nelson and Rene Agredano, and tells the story of their German shepherd who is diagnosed with bone cancer and has his front limb amputated. After his recovery, they make the decision to hit the road in their RV to make the best of the time they have left with their dog, Jerry G. Dawg.

Not only have John and I shared our life with three special needs dachshunds over the years, two of which had wheelchairs, but our first dog, a chocolate Lab was diagnosed with the same thing as Jerry G. Dawg. Though her tumor was in her hip and pressing on her spine which made surgery too great of a risk. We opted for an experimental drug at the time which gave her another quality of life ten months.

So I just knew I had to read this book and ordered it right away. It only took me three nights to read as it pulled me along on their adventures.

While I’ve never experienced life with a Tripawd like the amazing and sweet Jerry G. Dawg, I understand the heart of what Rene and Jim experienced.

Their love for Jerry is so evident in the pages of Be More Dog. The fact that they just knew they had to spread a positive message about tripod dogs makes this story even more special as they then formed a Tripawd community. They have helped thousands of people with pets who have lost a limb.

As I read their story, my heart rejoiced with them as they encountered people on their travels who often had never met a 3-legged dog and the pride and joy they took in educating others sharing with them that Jerry was still an active, loving and happy dog. It brought back fond memories of my wheelie dog, Frankie when we educated young and old through my children’s books and memoir, and visiting schools and libraries, that paralyzed dogs can live fulfilling lives too.

I walked in understanding beside them as the story evolves to that day we all know will come, but find it so hard to bear. I applaud them for really feeling through every emotion and doing what they felt was best for Jerry each step of the way.

I was especially moved by a chapter in the book where they meet an intuitive animal healer. They had made their way to a campground in Vermont when they were approached one evening by the daughter of the campgrounds founders, Lesley.

She was intrigued by Jerry and explained, “I work with pets and people to take them on spiritual journeys. I try to heal souls and make people happier by helping them understand their animal companions better.” She asked if she could do a reading on Jerry to which they agreed.

When she relayed back to them what she received, it was confirmation for them that those times they doubted if they were doing the right and best for Jerry, that Lesley assured them that Jerry was happy and pleased for the opportunity he’d been given.

Rene and Jim had recorded what Lesley shared with them. I was really touched at the end of the short clip when Lesley said, “When the healthier you are, the healthier your pets will be.” 

This was something I learned and became so much more aware of and the teaching I received from my dog, Gidget, and which I wrote about in my memoir (and soon to be released), I’m Fine Just the Way I Am- Healing Emotional Pain through the Wisdom of Animals and Oracles.

In 2018 as I did the inner work I was being called to do to heal a past wound, I eventually came to feel a healing shift within myself. As I continued on my self-healing path I was honored and given the most precious gift of witnessing in Gidget a shift in her energy also. By doing my healing work not only did it bring more stability, peace and calm to my life, but it gave this same gift to Gidget.

As Rene and Jim continued their journey with Jerry G. Dawg they too are changed on a level that one can’t always express in words, but can only be felt by the heart.

Special needs dog or not, Be More Dog is one every animal lover should read. But what makes a story such as this one so impactful is that within a special needs animal, we are given the opportunity to see into ourselves the parts of us that feel wounded. And this is where the true beauty of this story shines because animals truly want us to heal and why they stand beside us with such devotion and loyalty.

So bravo to Jerry G. Dawg! And to Rene and Jim for their words on the pages about their beautiful and touching journey with you. It left this dog lover with a heart that expanded once again because of the teachings of Dog that never fail to make us better humans.

xo,

Barbara

P.S. Rene is also a metalsmith and makes the most beautiful paw print and cat and dog jewelry. Check it out!

Here’s a short video to learn more about Be More Dog.

A Fresh New Start in My Writing Cottage

I woke up Sunday morning with the niggle to clean up my writing cottage. So I spent the day decluttering, dusting, re-arranging, discarding and sweeping. I could hardly wait to come out to my writing cottage Monday morning as the new, refreshing energy was calling to me.

Walking through the door I was giddy with the light and airy feeling that embraced me. I just sat in my chair and took a moment to slowly look all around the room. It felt like I was floating on a feather that was ever so gently drifting in the wind.

I thought about how my latest book is complete. I have a clean slate and another opportunity at a fresh new start.

Looking at my altar(the photo above) which takes on different objects throughout the seasons, I thought about Gidget. In May it will be one year since she moved on. Her photo had been on my altar since then. I can’t tell you how often I looked at it, talked to her, and stroked the body and ears of the photo.

I also knew yesterday as I cleaned and re-arranged that it was time to move her from the altar. My altar—a space where I go for my inward work— pulling oracle cards, journaling my thoughts, connecting with my heart, and one that supports my continued healing journey.

While there are times I still miss her physical presence these last nine months have also been filled with what I find so difficult to put into words— it’s been a time of what I can only describe as a deepening of my love and gratitude for her and how she walked so very lovingly beside me as I went through a very dark time.

I’ve often said, and will continue to say because it’s what I believe, is that we are all a work in progress and we are always in some phase of healing. Gidget’s teaching continues to be such a blessing and I’ve found myself expanding on it even though she is gone. I welcome being in this new space of relationship with her. I feel also like I’ve moved into a new space of healing and why I felt called to move her photo from the altar. 

I placed the photo on my writing desk and to the right of my computer. This feels symbolic to me. She was the one that patiently and with such devotion stood by me through it all – knowing and believing I could find my way out of the darkness. She is the one that helped me finally accept that I am worthy – just as I am. I know and feel this now.

Having her photo on my desk where I can see her and she is looking back at me is a nod to her wise, healer self, and her beautiful teaching to me that I’ve learned to embody that says, this is me and I’m Fine Just the Way I Am.

My writing cottage has a fresh new start, my heart one too, and my relationship with Gidget that continues to evolve and is my beacon of guiding light I feel so remarkably blessed to have.

xo,

Barbara

 

Hitting Milestones with Signs of Support from the Universe

Snow heart I discovered on a walk

Part of my day on Tuesday was preparing and addressing envelopes to send out complimentary copies of my new memoir to all the wonderful people who supported me along the way. 

Each time I hit a milestone like this I feel a whoosh of love run through my heart – and I know it’s Gidget. While she may not be here physically, I have felt her presence every step of the way, and I’m so grateful.

The books are now in the mail and on their way to the recipients. While writing is such a solitary endeavor it truly takes a team to bring a book into the world.

Writing a memoir for me has also meant that I have to first live my experiences before I share them. And then re-live them again as I write them. There is so much personal growth involved in the process for me.

In many ways, I’m welcoming this new phase as it is more linear, left-brain thinking as I am in preparation mode of getting ready to release it. And just an FYI that pre-ordering my new book, along with some bonus gifts is coming soon. 🙂 I hope you’ll stay tuned!

I also appreciate how the universe supports us with confirmation nudges along the way. Just recently I shared here on my blog about my story and an encounter with a snake that is included in a new book by my friend, Dawn Brunke, called Awakening the Ancient Power of Snake.

Reading Dawn’s book I learned about another author, Tera Thomas, who wrote a book called, Opening My Wings to Fly: What Animals Have Taught Me.

I read it in two days. It was hard to put down! Tera’s book is about how animals in the physical and non-physical have been some of her greatest teachers. She also shares her many experiences in communing with them, whether in dreams, meditative journeys, or in real life and how they have helped her become a better human being and live in harmony with them.

At times in my own life, I’ve thought I was losing my mind with how animals were showing up and trying to guide me – especially snake! It’s not something society often talks about and honestly not something many are even open to – this way of communing with animals that bring us messages we most need to hear and understand.  Reading Tera’s book, on the cusp of releasing mine, felt like connecting with yet another kindred spirit.

I’ve worked through much darkness to get to this point. Discovering other’s who have walked similar paths and their encounters with animals have been welcome validations. So to all the other authors (and animals!) who have walked before me, I say a big thank you! Just another welcome reminder that we never walk alone.

xo,

Barbara